Happy Valentine’s Day to one and all, whether you’re single, taken, or whatever in between!
I love Valentine’s Day. I’m really not a romantic, and quite frankly I find Valentine’s Day to be a little ridiculous. It is one of my favorite holidays, though. Woah, RaeAnna! Those are contradictions! I know! Thank you for pointing that out. I could give a rat’s ass about the romantic implications of the day; although, I have been very lucky in romantic partners making beautiful VDay memories. I love Valentine’s Day because of my dad.
There are loads of holidays with presents. I always had presents from my “parents.” The card signed Love, Mom and Dad in mom’s handwriting. Dad always asking “What is it? What is it?” as we unwrapped, and he’d usually be equally surprised at the contents. You know, dad stuff.
My mom didn’t do Valentine’s Day. She said nope. Every year, I always had Valentine’s Day presents. It was never my mom who went out and bought the candy and the cards. Something for Mom, something for my brother, and something for me. The cards were always from Dad. It was never big, but it meant the world.
My parents still live in my childhood house. In college, I was a few hours away. For the past four years, I have been out of state. The past two years, I have been across the country. Not a year goes by that I don’t find a card and candy in my mailbox at Valentine’s.
This year, my dad probably won’t be sending me a card. I’m not sad at all. I’m actually really excited because he’s flying to visit me for five days. It’s the first time he’s come to visit me without my mom. Not for the lack of want. You know that work thing… It keeps him pretty busy. I get to pick him up on Saturday. It’s the best Valentine’s Day present (coincidence) ever!